Nowadays it is almost impossible to remove children and adolescents of the Internet. Whether it’s because they have homework to do, they’re going to play a game, or they’re about to take online classes, they can’t be banned from going online. However, there are exposed to different types of risks.
It is well known that there is now the cyberbullying and trolling that can hurt minors and leave wounds that will affect them during their growth, so it is important that parents know some strategies to prevent them from being victims of these attacks without the need to completely ban them from the Internet.
Cultivate a relationship of trust
According to cybersecurity company digiparents ESETit is important that parents or guardians establish strong bonds of trust. When teens feel like they can tell their parents what’s on their minds, it provides them with a healthy perspective and safe ground they can always rely on.
When it is not the case, minors become more susceptible to being victims. In addition, specialists point out that a warm and open relationship allows for more honest conversations and the instruments to navigate safely on the Internet.
Look for signs that something is wrong
It is about paying attention to any sign that indicates that minors they could be victims of cyberbullying or be in contact with someone who could cause them harm. Some of the questions parents should ask themselves to find out if something is wrong are: Are you having frequent emotional problems or sudden mood swings? Have you suddenly deleted your social media profile? Is he pretending to be sick to avoid going to school?
With these questions or other similar ones, it is possible to know what the child’s state of mind is. You should also pay attention to their behavior, such as lack of interest with friends or family and try to reach out in the best way possible to help them.
Stay on top of online activities
No need to be intrusive, just make sure you have a insight into how they spend time on internet connected devices. It is best to find out about the latest trends that shape the lives of minors in the digital world.
You can follow the same influencers as them, or ask them to explain what the game they are playing is about. This gives the opportunity to react to current events and even strike up a conversation with them in which points of view are shared and build a bridge between the generation gap. For that to be possible, you have to listen with genuine interest.
who are the trolls
It should be noted that they cause interruptions in the network, create conflicts and, in general, provoke others. They take satisfaction in strong reactions to their offensive, irritating, or false posts. They make it impossible to have constructive and positive discussions on purpose.
What’s behind cyberbullying
Cyber bullying is based on writing offensive comments, spreading rumors and making false accusations, threats and chatting with bringing to light private or intimate information of the victim, humiliating and ridiculing, harassing, stalking or pretending to be someone else with the aim of harming someone. These actions are usually directed at one person.